Preventing Abusive Relationships: Part 1

Unfortunately, anyone can become the victim of violence, as there is no one type of victim that is more vulnerable than others. In order to protect yourself, you need to ensure you are taking precautionary measures and preparing for any type of situation. When you are planning on going out for an activity, be sure to be part of a group and have an escape plan. Also, establish someone as a trusted adult in your life, so you know whom to turn to in case of an emergency.

Admitting that you are in an abusive relationship, or have been the victim of sexual assault, can be challenging. You may not want to talk about it and instead deny that the relationship is unhealthy, or that you have been a victim of assault. You also may feel scared that your partner will get into trouble. Unfortunately, ignoring the problem will only make it worse. If you feel that you are in danger, you should tell a parent, teacher, counselor, or other trusted adult to get help immediately. They will do so without making you feel bad about asking for help. Your safety is the highest priority.

If you or anyone you know has experience with these or other difficult situations, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. Talking to a parent, teacher, counselor, family member, or other trusted adult can help you to resolve the situation before things become too difficult to control.

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