Peer Pressure vs. Coercion

Making friends is an important part of growing up. As we become close to others and start to learn more about our friends, sometimes we find out that they aren’t who we thought they were. Standing up to peer pressure and coercion may seem hard, but it’s the right thing to do. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to remove yourself from people that are negative influences on you. Surround yourself with people that share your beliefs, and encourage each other to make positive decisions.

It is important to understand the characteristics of peer pressure and coercion. As you observe the interactions around you, ask yourself the following questions:

• What are some signs that you might be trying to coerce someone?
• Do the same rules apply to you when others are coercing you?
• What are some ways that friends might exercise coercion?
• How should you respond if you recognize that a friend is attempting to coerce you into doing something you are not comfortable doing?
• Why might the same situation seem to be coercive to one group but not to another?

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If you or anyone you know has experience with these or other difficult situations, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. Talking to a parent, teacher, counselor, family member, or other trusted adult can help you to resolve the situation before things become too difficult to control.