Sexual assault occurs any time a sexual act or behavior happens without the consent of both parties. If someone is unable to give consent due to drugs or alcohol, this is considered substance-facilitated sexual assault. Sexual predators often use drugs and alcohol in order to minimize their victims’ ability to fight back or remember the event. The four most common drugs used for sexual assault are GHB, Ketamine, Rohypnol (commonly known as “roofies”), and alcohol. These drugs are commonly called date-rape drugs, as they inhibit the victim’s ability to fight back, remain coherent, or understand what is happening to them. Both men and women can be sexual assault victims.

 

Although there is no set pattern of behavior after a sexual assault occurs, victims of rape and sexual assault often struggle with feelings of shock, confusion, anxiety, and numbness. These symptoms can occur immediately after the assault or can occur later. Oftentimes, victims also battle with depression, shame, guilt, social problems, and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). PTSD symptoms involve repeated nightmares, feelings, or thoughts related to the assault.

 

Sexual assault is never the victim’s fault, and sexual assault is never acceptable. Consent is always required by both parties before engaging in a sexual act. By forcing someone into a sexual situation against their will, you are sexually assaulting that person. Never assume consent. Always ask for consent. If someone is unable to give consent, for whatever reason, do not engage in any sexual behavior with that person.

 

 

Admitting that you are in an abusive relationship, or have been the victim of sexual assault, can be challenging. You may not want to talk about it and instead deny that the relationship is unhealthy, or that you have been a victim of assault. You also may feel scared that your partner will get into trouble. Unfortunately, ignoring the problem will only make it worse. If you feel that you are in danger, you should tell a parent, teacher, counselor, or other trusted adult to get help immediately. They will do so without making you feel bad about asking for help. Your safety is the highest priority.

 

 

If you or anyone you know has experience with these or other difficult situations, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. Talking to a parent, teacher, counselor, family member, or other trusted adult can help you to resolve the situation before things become too difficult to control.